After settling the last bits of red tape (drivers' license, health insurance, bank accounts, and then some), I could finally focus my energy on day-to-day concerns, such as finding a permanent place to stay. An all-campus email failed to give me any leads to anyone renting or looking for roommates, so I have resorted to scouring online ads and real estate postings.
As much as I would love to live by myself, I quickly found it to be relatively unaffordable. If I wanted to get a vehicle and/or take any vacations, it would be financially risky for me to take on most apartments by myself. Hours after perusing online "roommate wanted" ads, I figured that it was a lot like online dating - except with more severe consequences if I screw it up and get stuck with someone(s) that I end up not liking!
I've looked all over the place, met all kinds of people, and have amassed many "it-would-only-happen-to-Macie" stories in the process. I haven't settled on anywhere yet, and I've even felt a few heartbreaks when the people/place I really liked chose someone else as a roommate. It's actually reminiscent of DePauw's sorority rush (for those of you who can relate). I can tell I'm getting better at asking the important questions and not wasting time with people I know I won't be able to live with... akin to mock interviews, I suppose. Most importantly, I've learned not to rush the process. I've got a safe place to stay with a roof and a bed, and I'm not moving until I'm sure it's the best thing I can be doing! And, in case you're wondering - the boarding house option is still on my radar - but is not topping the list at the moment.
I'm keeping my chin up and keeping my standards high on the living situation. From living abroad before, I know that my daily environment strongly affects the quality of my experience - and I don't want to mess this one up!
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